Previously, Ok Cupid’s over 3.5 million users were limited to choosing between a male or female gender and a sexuality of straight, gay or bisexual.

Benn Kessler, one such user, said he left Ok Cupid because it did not give him the option to properly describe his gender as transmasculine.

“A lot of people would make assumptions about me, if I listed myself as a man, that were incorrect,” he said.

Inexperienced, and he has a million questions, none of which have anything to do with who you are, but “what” you are.

Do NOT ask us about trans issues, what it’s like to live a day in our shoes or what our stance is on the treatment of trans women the world over. If the girl in question is a software engineer, you should probably ask her about that. Buy a few books on us if that’s your thing, educate yourself — the information is out there.

New gender options include genderqueer, agender, intersex, transgender, pangender, transmasculine, transfeminine and two spirit, among others.

These are only available to some users, and Ok Cupid has not yet responded to a request for comment on when they will be open to [email protected] screen and (orientation: landscape) @media screen and (orientation: portrait) html html, body body input::-ms-clear a a:focus, a:hover ul ul li :focus button, input, select, textarea . Eu Cookie Bar__cookie Button:focus @keyframes scroll Bg Grid Links . Transgender men seem to be less subject to prurient interest on There is often a more blanket level of acceptance of transgender people within the kink and BDSM scenes and sites such as Fet Life.These are groups of people who have already opened themselves up to a greater range of romantic and erotic possibilities, and transgender often just adds to the smorgasbord. So, if you’re attracted to transgender women, here are a few choice rules in dating one.